How to tell if a guy likes you | At school or work

How to tell if a guy likes you at work or school.

It’s me again in this video I will talk about how to tell if a guy likes you in a group.
What’s good witcha You tube! In this video ill address a viewer question but first let me give you some context. A young lady named Kiley found herself in a rare situation where she was the only female in a work group of seven. Six of which obviously were men. She writes “I was working with a group of 6 guys this week. I think one may have been attracted to me, but I can't tell. anything else I've read says to see how he acts around other women, but since I was the only one, how would he have acted to/ around me?” First of all Kiley thank you for the question. I would have just written you the answer but I like to be thorough and it would have been too much writing. It’s probably something someone else would want to know as well so I decided to do a video on it.
With that said A guy who likes you will act differently depending on the situation. In your situation, you were in a work group. His level of comfort with the other guys in the group would dictate the way he acts or tries to relay the fact that he’s interested. It also depends on if it’s his first time encountering you. This one is tricky because there are a few completely different types of ques to look for.
Lets say it’s his first time working with you all or he’s not very familiar with you or the group. He’ll be more cautious about flirting. He’ll most likely not flirt at all but do his best to leave an impression on you. What that would look like in a work setting is; He’ll try to stand out as the most competent guy in the group. He’ll ask the most questions, he’ll engage more. He’ll will try to find a way to distinguish his abilities from the other guys. He may even race to take the lead to show you that he’s a real man who can take charge. He may will try to dominate the group and treat the other men as subordinates. That’s if he’s an alpha male personality.
If he’s more of a beta male then he may subtly try to connect with you by cosigning all of your ideas and trying to mirror them to create the idea in your head that you two think alike and have much in common. He’ll light up at everything you say to feign professional respect. He’ll expound upon any idea you show interest in to subtly show you how you complete each other. This is all subconscious by the way. Most men aren’t smart enough to plan this, it’s just instinctive. He’ll break his back to be the best teammate of the group, because he wants you to prefer working with him over the other guys. He’ll rush to sit closest to you and suggest you two work on parts of the project together. Anything to shrink the conversation down from group talks to just you and him. Both type of guys will try to separate you from the heard to get you alone like some kind of apex predator. He wants to exchange contact information to work the project outside of the current setting.
Both types want the conversation to veer away from the project at hand. So if he keeps bringing up unrelated shit when he talks to you he definitely like you.
Yet and still there is the guy who may really really be attracted to you. If his crush is serious you can spot him by his sweating out of nowhere. Underarms wet forehead shining with moister. He’ll have an inability to focus. He may even come off like he is mentally ill equipped. His fumbling will have you wondering if he’s going to be the weakest link. Some of us just lose our wits around someone we like. I remember in high school I had to dissect a cat with my crush as my lab partner. (shakes Head) …I couldn’t learn shit. All I could think of was “kevin don’t look stupid”, “don’t say nothing stupid”, “shit, I hope my breath doesn’t stink” “does she me sweating” “fun, now she’s gonna think I'm sweaty” “am I cutting through this deodorant?” “be cool man, just be cool” The point is there are a ton of things to look for.