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How to Disagree Respectfully

82,969 views October 26, 2016 7:24

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To master the art of conversation, we have to learn how to disagree respectfully and this video teaches three steps and lets you practice. After hearing statements you will probably disagree with. With these tips, you can master the art of conversation respectful disagreement.

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1. Pause. This helps you collect your thoughts and shows the other person that you are not going to jump all over them the first chance you get.

2. Express respect. It's important to show obvious respect for the other person. This helps change your attitude and will soften them to hearing your opinion. In fact, to master the art of conversation, showing respect is a foundational skill. It will help you avoid many communication issues in the first place.

3. Express your own opinion cleanly. Don't add "But," or "However" before your statement. Just give your opinion as if it is not in direct competition with other opinions. In fact, it is not. Multiple viewpoints can exist at the same moment and the world will not stop spinning. Think of it as a discussion, not a debate that you must win. When improving your communication skills and master the art of conversation, you don't really need to debate people very often. You can demonstrate much more positive communication by simply stating your opinion cleanly, not as a counterpoint position.

These three steps have to be done genuinely. They are not a "trick." They simply put your true desire for supportive communication into a helpful format.

Master the Art of Conversation in the rest of this video collection:
Part 1: 3 Key Conversation Skills: youtube.com/watch?v=zfff7ddXzxI
Part 2: Asking Good Questions: youtube.com/watch?v=XeJ03dDGlCk
Part 3: How to Make Conversation with Anyone: youtube.com/watch?v=JSA6cfGyUaQ
Part 4: How to disagree respectfully: youtube.com/watch?v=bc9arLqKApE

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Communication Coach Alex Lyon published this 7:24 video tutorial on October 26, 2016. It has been watched 82,969 times on YouTube.

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October 26, 2016
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