How to Spice Up the Bedroom

If you're looking to spice up the bedroom, you've come to the right place. My name is Hunter and I'm one of the managers at Self Serve Toys in Albuquerque. We've been around for ten years, helping people spice up their relationships.

It's really, really hard sometimes when you've been with someone for a little while, you start to feel like you're in a rut. It's normal, it's natural, there's nothing wrong with you or your partners. What is important to think about, is what you can do with a partner that's new and exciting. We often times recommend what's called a "Yes, no, maybe checklist." It can really help spice up the bedroom a little bit.

What it is, is it's an activity that you can do with your partner or partners. It's a list of different types of activities that might have to with kink, or non-monogamy, or sex toys. You get to fill out this checklist on your own, then you and your partner come back and you decide where you have in common "yes's" and "maybe's". The "no's", you keep off the list, but there might be a lot of fun things that you can try with your partner that you didn't even know that you both shared an interest in. We really recommend this list for anybody that wants to spice it up a little bit, because it gives you a little bit of guide. Sometimes we get feeling stuck and we don't know what to try. We don't know how to go about it. That can be really helpful, because it gives you a couple of ideas of where you can go first.

Trying new things together really helps in a relationship. It doesn't have to revolve around sex. It could be taking a pottery class together, it could be going on a trip to a new location. If sex is not for you, or you're not interested in exploring sexually, that's fine too. There's nothing wrong with that. This little checklist can help give you some ideas of things you can explore.

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