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How To Avoid Embarrassing Yourself In An Argument - Jordan Peterson

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How To Avoid Embarrassing Yourself In An Argument - Jordan Peterson

25,297,496 views October 25, 2018 11:45

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This video breaks down how to recognize and counter common conversational tactics used by people who manipulate arguments to make you appear weak or defensive. By analyzing Jordan Peterson’s approach in a high-stakes debate, you’ll learn to spot verbal traps—like the 'so-you’re-saying' setup or the 'assuming the sale' technique—and respond in a way that shifts the dynamic back in your favor. It’s useful for anyone who’s ever felt cornered in a discussion or wanted to handle pushy interlocutors with confidence.

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Previous JP video on earning respect: youtube.com/watch?v=hsQLksbfDSo&;
Jordan Peterson VS Cathy Newman Debate
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How To Shut Down Conversational Bullies

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We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in.

So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them.

1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap
2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale"
5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique
7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though
7:47 And visual imagery can also help
8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with you

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Charisma on Command published this 11:45 video tutorial on October 25, 2018. It has been watched 25,297,496 times on YouTube.

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