How To Be A Nice Girl While Remaining Assertive

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Some of you, ladies, keep emailing me asking how to be a nice girl. For some reason, some of you guys really want to come across as nice girls, I don't get why. First thing's first, if people didn't see you like a nice girl, that's actually a good thing. It's much better to be a little intimidating before they get to know you and then you show how nice you are once they get to know you. Once they give you respect, then you could be nice.

In order for you to be the nice girl while remaining assertive, you got to have a hint of coldness like I always talk about. The way to do it is when you first meet people, don't be so friendly. Stop smiling so much and stop trying to be so appeasing at the beginning. They're not gonna lose interest. In fact, that's gonna make you more mysterious.

You got to start practicing saying "no". Nice people have learned to gain people's validation through being nice because they sort of have a condition that when you're nice to someone, you're gonna get smiles and happy reactions. Nice people equate the mask from reality. Nice people equate smiles and niceness as a sign of respect but in reality, people mistake your niceness for weakness. Sometimes, unconsciously, your niceness is a sign of weakness because I could promise you, if you didn't need anything from anybody, you'll be who you are. You'll notice how indifferent you are to most people's needs and you'll notice how rude you could be sometimes.

Once you don't need anything from people, your true side comes out. You'll start acting from a place of power and that doesn't mean as a bad or good thing. That just means that you're hard to please and that you're more willing to show negative emotions. In order to be a nice girl, you first have to be bad in the beginning.

That means you don't smile so much, that means you're a little difficult, that means you're more willing to show negative emotion. Once you feel like a person has been there long enough, then you could ease up.

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