How to Confront Your Cheating Spouse (Without Looking Crazy! )

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If you’re watching this video right now, then I’m sorry. Being cheated on is maybe one of the most difficult things anyone can go through. You feel betrayed, angry, sad… maybe even worthless and depressed. But as bad as things feel right now, just know that this isn’t your fault – there are almost no good reasons to cheat in a marriage.

But now you’re lost and confused and you don’t know how to approach this situation. Well, hopefully in this video, I can help you navigate through this very difficult spot.

1.) Has your relationship declined? Have you noticed that your spouse becoming more distant? Is he or she more apt to start fights? How’s your sex life? How often do you spend one on one time together? If you’ve noticed any of this change, it may be an indicator that your spouse might be interested in someone else.
2.) Have you observed any unusual behaviour? One of the most telling signs that your spouse is cheating on you is how they treat their phone. Have you noticed them fleeing to another room to answer phone calls? Are they very secretive when it comes to texting? When you ask them to use his or her phone, do they act strange? If they’re freaking out about their privacy surrounding their phone, this could be a strong indicator that they may be unfaithful to you (or at least talking to someone that they shouldn’t be talking to).
3.) Watch your finances. Has your spouse been spending a lot of money on something? If so, ask them about it. It’s not rude or wrong to ask why your spouse has been spending so much lately. If their reasons for spending more seems off, this could be another indicator that they’re cheating.
4.) If your spouse isn’t with you, ask them where they are. Again, it’s not rude to know where your spouse is. Write down where they are and when and try and connect the dots… is that place even open? Is he or she coming up with the same excuses all the time? You might unearth some strange patterns by asking them this simple question.

Also know that even if these four conditions are satisfied, it doesn’t mean he or she is for sure cheating on you. But knowing that your spouse is behaving in a peculiar way may encourage you to learn more about their potential infidelities.

Of course, there are other, more drastic ways to find out if your spouse is cheating. It’s not uncommon to hire a private investigator, but again, I feel quite strange recommending this to anyone. If you’re feeling desperate, then this is a potential option to explore.

Instead, know exactly what you’re going to say before entering the conversation, and expect a fiery response in turn. I also recommend talking in a non-accusatory tone of voice when speaking to your spouse. As much evidence as you may have, there may always be a chance that there’s a misunderstanding. Speak to your spouse as if you all you want to know is the truth. Don’t be overly aggressive, don’t yell, and don’t lash out and say anything that you’ll later regret. Do your best to keep your body language, voice, and emotions in check.


For example, if your spouse said that they were at the pub last night, and you have a sneaking suspicion that they weren’t, ask them which pub they went to. Then say your best friend was also there all night long too. After, observe how your spouse reacts. Do they begin to panic? Or are they calm? If you catch them on a lie, this is the time where you pounce and calmly accuse them of cheating. But if you’re unsure, then continue probing them.


Again, there’s no sure-fire way to approach this situation, but the most important thing is that you need to know the truth. If you want additional help on what you can do in this situation, and if you want to learn how you can make your marriage ‘cheat proof’, head on over to MarriageGuy.com and watch the free video on that website. Again, the URL is MarriageGuy.com. So head on over there right now, you won’t regret it.

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Thanks for watching, and good luck.