How to deal with rejection from women ?

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Hi Guys this is Iain Myles, the leading dating coach of KamaLifestyles. And I'm joined with the one and only Gabriella Ryan.

Today we're going to talk about how to deal with rejection in a more positive way.

When you set about improving your life, whether it is setting up a business or applying for that dream job, you will have to accept the fact that you'll get a lot of rejections or setbacks. This is also very true with dating, whether you're a man or a woman. It's said that you're only as strong as your weakness and this can be said with rejections as well. It's how you deal with rejections that will determine how successful you become with dating.

The Root of Rejection

Approaching anxiety is one the biggest issues that my clients face and this is true especially with guys, as usually it's up to the guy to approach and the biggest cause of approach anxiety is the fear of rejection. Yes it does hurt and it's usually rooted in people's childhood where we're all conditioned to feel certain ways about certain outcomes. I remember asking a girl out for the first time when I was about 14 years old and she rejected me. I remember that it really hurt and I didn't put myself in that position for a while after. I would only rely on meeting women through my friends. It's only when I made a mind shift in my early twenties to really get my dating life handled that I faced my fear of rejection.

It Is Never Personal

When you break down rejection it's never really personal. It only becomes personal if you CHOOSE to make it personal. When Iain first started approaching women, he was rejected and although the feeling of rejection stung he was determined to move past it. It was only through approaching lots of women that he realised he was starting to improve as he was getting better responses. So we teach people the art of how to approach in the best way they can using their best qualities but even if you do a good approach, you cannot control how the other person will react. The other person could be married, engaged, or just in a bad mood. These are factors that you have absolutely no control over and the more you put yourself out there and approach, the more you will come to realise this for yourself.

Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He's highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.

Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training's by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”.

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