how to get over someone insulting/humiliating you and move on

A viewer commented that an acquaintance who is in her circle of friends really insulted her at a recent wedding they all attended, and she can't move on from it. I think it is the embarrassment more than anything that is getting to you. So, you have to act normal again, like you did before the incident. If your friends see that you have moved past this, they will start acting the same again and will stop looking at you strangely. And as far as the person who insulted you...give her your big fat fake smile and say nothing other than "hi" and "bye" and move on. Just because you share the same friends doesn't mean you have to be buddy-buddy. In fact I would stay as far away from her as you can.


Marie Dubuque is a life coach who loves to offer advice on everything from dating dilemmas and drama-filled friendships to tricky social situations and romantic relationships gone south!