How to Get Your Girlfriend to Lose Weight - 8 Tested Tips

If you want to get your girlfriend or wife to lose weight, follow these 8 tested tips (explained in detail in the video) that I’ve been using with my wife for the past 6 and a half years, which have caused her to always want to stay in shape and look her best for me.

1. Tap into her natural motivation to look good for you.
2. Let her know what you find attractive about her now, while also saying that if she did lose some weight, that would look good too.
3. Don't try to motivate her to workout by talking about the importance of health, or telling her how much you care about her health.
4. If you don't find overweight women as attractive as slim women, or slender women, then don't pretend to.
5. Workout as something fun to do together, while understanding that it might take some time for her to develop a liking for it.
6. Don't be too serious about food, initially.
7. Understand that sometimes, things can get in the way of the progress that she has been making.
8. Get her to have realistic expectations, so she doesn't lose motivation.

Personally, I’ve never had to say to my wife, “You’re looking a little fat. You should lose weight” when she has put on a few too many extra kilos at certain points in our relationship.

Why?

She is attracted to me, doesn’t want to lose me and knows that I find women who are in shape much more attractive than women who are overweight.

Even though she knows that I find her sexy and attractive no matter what, she knows that I also really like it when she is in shape.

As a result of that and due to the fact that I don’t ever pressure her to lose weight, she wants to stay in shape and she feels good about doing it.

It doesn’t feel like something that she has to do.

It’s something that she wants to do.

As explained in the video, you should essentially let your woman know that it’s up to her if she wants to lose weight and stay in shape.

It’s not up to you to manage for her, pressure her into or constantly remind her about.

It’s up to her.

Yet, while giving her that freedom, the key to success here is that you also have to make sure that you create the kind of relationship dynamic where she feels a lot of attraction for you and doesn’t want to lose you.

When you have that kind of relationship dynamic, she will naturally feel motivated to look good for you.

She will want to lose weight, stay in shape and look her best without you ever having to say anything negative to her or try to force her into doing it.

She will want to do it.

To learn exactly how to create the kind of relationship dynamic where your woman wants to impress you and look good for you, watch this:
themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-lif…

Cheers

Dan Bacon
Founder of TheModernMan.com and creator of Make Her Love You For Life

P.S. It’s always best to be subtle about getting her to lose weight. As explained in the video, the best way to understand why is to flip the example around. Imagine that she is directly telling you or even pressuring you into putting on muscle or losing weight. Try to imagine how that would make you feel and how it might change your feelings towards her.

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