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How to Keep a Conversation Going With a Guy | 4 (PROVEN) Expert Tips:

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You have no idea how to keep a conversation going with a guy and as a result, you feel like you're losing the chance to light a spark.

First off: you're not alone. SO many women (men too) feel clueless when it comes to knowing how to keep a conversation going with a guy.

Some women talk 90-to-nothing because they're nervous, barely letting him get a word in edgewise.

Some women are overly sarcastic, putting the man off.

Some women hide behind their intelligence, unsure of how to let a man see the real thing.

Some women are stone cold silent; sure they'll say the wrong thing.

Whichever of these examples describe you; we're going to work through some tips that will loosen you up and help you spark great conversation the next time you're sitting across from a gorgeous guy.

I guarantee that by the time you're done watching the video above and reading the article below, you'll be a more confident conversationalist.

Your Coach,

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Whether you simply want to be a better conversationalist with any man or are specifically looking to engage a man you're attracted to with witty banter, this article is for you. I know how intimidating it can be when you're on a date or talking to a cute guy for the first time.

I've got lots of tips for you, so let's get started.

How to Keep a Conversation Going With a Guy #1: Sometimes There's Not Convo Chemistry

If there's no conversation chemistry, it's not your fault.

Just like you have a certain chemistry with some guys and not with others, the same goes for your conversational chemistry. It's got nothing to do with your skills in this department; it's just that you're not compatible conversationally with certain guys (which probably means you're not going to be compatible in other ways).

If, when you're talking to a gentleman, it's like pulling teeth to get him to respond, or you just feel like you're moving through tar trying to have a conversation, he's not the one. Move on.

How to Keep a Conversation Going With a Guy #2: Key To a Good Conversation? Listen

Be a good listener, and he'll do all the talking.

Here's something most people don't get: most of a conversation is simply listening.

Open-ended questions are good, but just make sure you don't come off like you're trying to interview him for the role of husband (why did your last marriage end? how long have you been on dating apps? what are you looking for?).

How to Keep a Conversation Going With a Guy #3: Repeat The Last Statement He Made

Get him to open up by repeating what he said.

Here's a great tip on how to keep a conversation going with a guy when there's a lull, and you don't know where to take it: just repeat the last statement he made.

If you struggle to keep a convo going, simply by saying the last phrase of what someone has said — especially if he's a talkative person — will make him continue the conversation.

How to Keep a Conversation Going With a Guy #4: Make Conversation a Fun Game

Ask hypothetical questions to break the ice.

Sometimes a way to add a little fun to the conversation is to make it a little game. Ask him hypothetical questions like:

If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?
If you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it
be?
What would your dream job be in your next life?

You could even tell him you want to play a game like 21 Questions or Would You Rather as a way to get to know one another. Playing games like these ensure that you never run out of things to say.

I find this helps my coaching clients: realize that he's in the same boat as you, too. Somewhere out there, right this moment, the next guy you're going to go out with is Googling "how to keep a conversation going with a woman."

What's been the hardest thing for you regarding how to keep a conversation going with a guy? Leave a comment below.

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