How To Speak Attractively To Men

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Whoever said that a picture is worth a thousand words must not have known the power of seductive speech. Why’s that? Because out of all the tools us women possess to make men interested in us, our voice is one of the most overlooked and unused for doing so.
Hey ladies, Amy North here. For those of you who don’t know me I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada and author of The Devotion System — a program designed to help women find the love they want and deserve. Today I want to share with you some sneaky tips for making your voice seem attractive to men.
All too often women think the most effective way to get a guy’s attention is by oozing with sex appeal or using overly forward body language. And while these do work for catching his eye, what really does wonders for attracting men is your voice. In fact, the way you carry it and control your speech are just as, if not more so, effective and efficient than other bodily tricks.

So then, how can you use your voice to attract men? That’s exactly what I’m about to teach you. Before I do so though I’d like to quickly ask that if you enjoy this video or find it at all helpful then please take a moment to subscribe to my YouTube channel. Your support is what makes these videos possible!
Now that that’s out of the way, let’s get started, and to do so, I want to explain what I mean by “voice,” because as obvious as it may seem, there’s more to it than you may realize.
Believe it or not, voice can be broken down into five key parts or factors, these are: tone, structure, dictation, detail and imagery. For the remainder of this video I’m going to talk about each one individually, and explain how you can to use them to your advantage.
Let’s begin with tone.
Tone is the attitude and personality you give to your words. The tone you use brings your words to life, and the good news is that you have complete control over it.
Truth be told, the first thing a man notices about your voice is the tone, which is why using the right one is so important if you’re looking to win him over. Just like the wrong tone will send him running for the hills, the right one will have him hanging off your every word. So, when speaking to a man you’re interested in, be sure to use a light-hearted, upbeat and positive tone. When he gets the impression that you’re an enjoyable person to be around then he’s going to want to see you more often.
Even if negative or unpleasant topics do come up in conversation — because believe me, they very well could — try to keep a neutral tone and avoid being overly opinionated about touchy topics. This is especially important if you’re just getting to know him.
In the meantime keep in mind that playful tones will show him you’re into him, while more saucy and seductive ones will let him know that you’re looking to turn up the heat between the two of you.
Next is structure, and just as it’s name implies, it’s how you control, pace and focus your speech.
In a conversation structure is what makes it possible to flow from one thought to the next in a smooth, efficient and sensible way. Those who have mastered this factor know how to steer a conservation in whichever way they so choose, which is why it’s so important to perfect.
For instance, you can be in charge of a conversation without him even realizing it, which in the long run can actually help you get what you want from the situation. Yes, in some ways it’s arguably the art of manipulation, but for the sake of this video, let’s stick to how structure can boost your odds with a man.
So, in order to keep his attention on you and attraction in full force it’s important that you avoid using filler words that can make you seem less confident or unsure of yourself. Instead speak steady and smoothly, and be sure to enunciate each and every word.
For examples of sentences you can use to win over any man visit my site, www.coachnorth.com and watch the free video presentation. There you’ll learn all about my Devotion Sequences, which are sentences designed to make men wild with desire for you. Trust me, you don’t want to miss it!
Now let’s talk about dictation, which in its most basic form is word choice. It’s what gives your sentences a distinctive “you” signature. Your own flare if you will.
Yes it can be tough to change your dictation completely from speaking with one person to the next, but even the slightest variations can have a powerful impact. I mean, you wouldn’t talk to your dream man the same way you would your mother, would you?
So, when talking to a potential love interest it’s important that you choose your words wisely if you’re looking to attract him. For instance, you can show off your intelligence or passion here in a way that will have him anticipating what’s next, simply by using the right terms and phrases.