How To Text A Girl So She Responds

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How To Text A Girl So She Responds
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There you are: you’ve just met someone wonderful, you’ve got her number, and you’re ready to reach out and text her . . . in this hypothetical situation, do you feel like you’re about to hit a home run or strike out completely?

Texting is something that a lot of people struggle with. Even if you draft multiple versions of texts with everyone from friends to co-workers, the context in which texting proves the most challenging is dating and relationships.

The first thing that you have to realize about texting is that texting is not a real conversation. Allow me to explain: Humans have evolved over millions of years to connect and communicate effectively with each other. For the vast majority of that time, this has taken place primarily through face-to-face conversation. In fact, modern communication mediums that we take for granted today did not come into play until the last century.

In other words, we’re used to direct exchanges—when we talk to each other, we’re hardwired to expect an immediate response.

Let’s say you were talking to someone in person and asked how his or her day was going . . . you’d expect a verbal answer, right? What if, however, the person just stared at you blankly, then turned and walked away? You’d be like, “What the hell, man?” You’d feel rejected, ignored, maybe even hurt or angry. Unfortunately, we bring exactly the same mentality to texting.

How many times have you found yourself feeling anxious, frustrated or rejected after texting someone and not receiving a response after a couple minutes (or even a couple hours)? You think, “Ugh! I’m not good enough. I messed it up. She never wants to talk to me again.”

We create the false reality that we’re in a real conversation in which the person is straight-up ignoring us. That’s not what’s happening.

Texting is a means of contact . . . not a real conversation.

There are literally a million things that could be keeping someone from text you back right away at any given moment. It doesn’t mean that the person is ignoring you or hates you.



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