How to Be a "Slut" Without The Slut Shaming (Increase Sexual Confidence)

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Let's talk about female sexuality and how to deal with slut-shaming. A lot of women struggle with being feminine and expressing their sexuality without being judged. Men are encouraged to express theirs but women are not, which is messed up, right? So women's personality is suppressed, as a result, a lot of women don't experience their full sexuality.

The first thing you got to realize is to pick the right guy. Make sure to pick a guy who’s not way too extrovert or seeking validation. The ones you want to do it with are the ones with girlfriends because they have to keep it a secret and they won’t tell. But don’t do that. Realize that guys don’t understand that some women just want sex.

The most important key is reputation so make sure to meet guys who are outside of your circle (tinder) and who won’t be known by a lot of people. And make sure you always go to their place. A lot of people judge women so, unfortunately, you have to know the facts and play the game the right way.

Be known as looking for someone and still not being able to find it. Don’t be the one who doesn’t want relationships. Play to the crowd. Remember society is fucking stupid. They’ll assume the worst.

Have clear boundaries and stick to them. Know when you’re trying to get more out of it than sex and when you do, notice it and stop.

Don’t turn them on too much, there’s something called “buyers remorse” by bumping up the buying temperature. You wanna be subtly sexy. This will start their imagination and will make them think about you.

No nudes or partial nudity. The reason why I say no nudes is because it doesn't leave to the imagination. Even though they want to know they don't. The real excitement comes into tease in the subtleness.

Suppress your sexual confidence rather than show it. Make sure it remains under the front of insecurity. This will make any advancement that you make seem less slutty and hotter because it will seem like you trying to control yourself because you're so attracted to the guy you can't complain. The innocent and vulnerable woman is the best strategy to get a guy obsessed with you while remaining passive and sexually aggressive at the same time.

Observe the emotion of slut-shaming. Realize that it comes from other people’s insecurity. Also, realize that femininity is suppressed and masculinity isn’t. There’s a lack of balance and that causes a structural imbalance in society that’s oppressive and dangerous to learn how to deal with the consequences of expressing yourself. But do it intelligently.

Notice the mental chatter and observe it but practice it during the good times so that it doesn’t consume you when it goes repaint.

Here's a link to the article version: mindfulattraction.org/blog/2019/7/27/how-to-be-…

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