How To Connect With Anybody - Vlog Day 2 - Weekly Challenge #29

How To Connect With Anybody - Helping People Out - Weekly Challenge #29
Vlog day 2
2016-10-11

Hey guys!
Today was a way better day then yesterday ( stable trough out the whole day! ) did some reflection on way things went sour yesterday. Then do som reflecting concerning a conversation I had over lunch when I tried to help out! Alos met up with my friend i met in Taiwan, Danil. Great day!

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This week's challenge introduction video:
youtu.be/5gyIuTXaIvw

Hey guys and welcome to a new weekly challenge!

This week it is going to be all about connecting with new people, acquaintance or plain old friends by focusing in on adding value by helping them out and not expecting anything in return - basically being an unpaid consultant in YOUR area of expertise. Monday to Friday – as always - so we can make a focused effort to grow towards becoming a better version of ourselves.

Last week was about taking time to meet with friends during the week, and really being present and 100 % focused on that meeting and nothing else - Quality Time. That also meant helping these friends out; talking about each other’s life and trying to find ways to help each other; because that's what's friends are for. Being there for each other, giving advice, just listening, reflecting and analysing together. What I realised during these meetings was that it really felt so good to be able to help people in areas I felt confident in, but also the connection that was created as a result of that.

Helping people out is so incredibly powerful. To give without asking for any in return makes an impact and creates a bond. It's a life skill and an attitude that properly can change your life if you learn to use it in the right way. Just think about it, when did someone help you out the last time? How did it made you feel? Grateful, feel stronger for that person now?
At least for me, and as a result of past week, I've realised first-hand what this does for the connection and I want do develop this skill further, which means giving it full attention. So wouldn’t you say that it's worth a few minutes a day, for five days, focusing in on practicing only that; developing your skills for how to help people out by basically just applying a simple framework?  For me it's obvious - it's a must do weekly challenge!

Always when I focus in on an area I try to research the expert’s advices on the topic, get different inputs and advices on how to do what I'm trying to do. And so I stumbled across this video on YouTube with a talk about how to connect with powerful and influential people by Michael Ellsberg, a guy whom has written books about the key successes factors of millionaires. And he managed to meet with these highly regarded people by talking is way there. So in his talk, he shared his way for how he manages to create deep connections with people and forming strong bonds; creating relationships that enabled him to get to know some of the richest people in the world. But the method he’s using is applicable in most contexts and situations………

The Full test doesn't fit here, so read the rest at:
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The talk that this video is based on:
How to Connect with Powerful and Influential People
Michael Ellsberg is the author of The Education of Millionaires (Penguin, 2011) 
 
youtube.com/watch?v=PDmOgLabl_M&t=1s
 

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