How to convince your spouse for counseling

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Your partner knows you very well. Rather he or she listens to your words more than what you say. This happens because your partner sees your intent. So if you are convinced yourself that you want to be with your partner, he or she will read your intent. If you are genuine and use genuine words of love, your partner cannot resist you. If you tell to your partner that you really want to be with him or her and for this you want to understand the concerns better and know the changes that YOU need to bring, then your partner will also be able to get that conviction. You need to give the correct logic of why you want to consult a third person who is an expert, then, you increase the chances of your partner saying a ‘yes’. You also need to make him or her safe and assured that marriage counseling is an unbiased process and not a court room where there will be exchange of arguments. You can explain that marriage counseling is a skill building process and you need your partner’s support because you are not able to understand him or her despite trying for so long. This will help your partner know that marriage counselor is not a last stage towards of marriage , rather it will help create the love back again in the relationship, and it is not about who is wrong , rather it is about learning what can be done to bring a culture of friendship and affection between the two of you.

Dr. Kamal Khurana can be consulted for further information at 09599-000-555.