How to Make Him Chase by Playing Hard to Get... THE RIGHT WAY!

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The usual problem with women playing hard to get is that it looks too obvious. You need to mask your attraction to the person with an air of indifference. One second, you show a lot of attraction which makes him think that you really like him.

Afterward, he doesn’t hear back from you for two days. Even when he hits you up, you act as though you don’t care. This confuses him.

The key to pulling this off is to be comfortable with going to the extreme on both ends. Really show your attraction to him and at times be self-disciplined and hide your attraction. Do it aggressively, not half-heartedly. Varying the vibe will make him question what’s going on.

Time this well. The best time to show that you like the guy is when he does something that goes along with what you have in mind in terms of the relationship. If you want him to be your boyfriend, you reward boyfriend types of behavior such as asking you out on a date or taking you to dinner.

Reward him with a lot of attention during those times or do something that shows you’re very attracted.

At the same time, be able to stop hitting him up when he does something that could be interpreted as him fucking up. If he doesn’t text you for a whole day, start acting cold. You can give him one-word responses.

You’re conditioning him to behave in a certain way. You time it right depending on the kind of behavior you want him to have. It’s manipulative, but it works.

Also give the guy space. Doing this allows you to play hard to get. You’re coming across as attractive because we want what’s out of our range. When you’re not around, the only way for him to think about you is to imagine you.

The more space you give him, the more he’ll fantasize about you. The more he thinks about you, the hornier he gets, and the more extreme it’s going to be.

He’ll create a fantasy-like image of you. It may not reflect reality, but it’s going to get him to chase. It will make him want to see you more.

Another thing you do is show vulnerability. Act as though you’re an innocent little girl. Say things such as, when you’re around him, you just want to get close to him. By acting as though you’re a victim of your emotions, he’ll think that you can’t control yourself.

When you act cold, he’ll think that he must have really done something wrong. This makes him think, question, and invest more. It makes him chase.

The only way for him to do that is for him to be confused as to why you’re not talking to him. Have him wondering why.

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