How to make your man pay attention to you - 7 Tips

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How To Make Him Notice You – 7 Tips

“A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart” – LEO BUSCAGLIA

Have you ever bought a new outfit and worn it to an event, only to have no one really notice it? No one comments: “Hey, that’s a nice dress!” or you just don’t get the looks you want?

Or maybe you’ve been dating a guy for a while and you feel like he’s paying attention to everyone else but you.

These disappointments are difficult, especially if you’ve built up a story about it in your head, and now you’re working to get those expectations fulfilled. It’s strange because you might even feel like the world kind of … owes you this recognition, yeah?

Look, getting ignored sucks…

But we are ignored by almost everyone all the time, so why should we care at all if we’re not getting noticed?

Well, when it comes to people we value, we want to feel valued back.

We want them to recognize our value. And nothing makes you feel valued like having the person you adore give you his attention.

So right now I want to take a few minutes to show you how you can get a man to really NOTICE you…

But first – as I like to do – I’m going to give you a few cautionary words to help you avoid the big mistakes –

MISTAKE 1 – You won’t get him to notice you by using a “gun”

I’ve been in a few relationships where the woman was – unfortunately – a bit too insecure. And then she proceeded to make it my fault she wasn’t getting the attention she needed.

Of course, she didn’t really need attention, she needed to find out why she was always feeling so insecure.

So I was the one that ended up being blamed. She’d try to force me – at emotional gunpoint – to notice her, but that only made me resentful and unhappy. So I left.

Don’t make that mistake. You won’t get his attention by force.

MISTAKE 2 – You won’t get him to notice you by trying to impress him…

What you need to do is LET HIM IMPRESS YOU…

Too many women are eager to start sharing the other people in their life with him before letting him feel like he’s really got your attention.

Once you let a guy think you’re impressed by him, you just lean back and let him step back up to the plate and start earning your attention.

You’d be surprised how effective this is, especially because guys need to know they’re desired, too.

Okay, now let’s dig into the 7 tips to get his attention:

Get Him To Pay Attention To You – Tip 1: Beam The Positive…

Men are instinctively drawn to bubbly, fun people. Especially women…

In fact, a lot of women resent this kind of attitude in a woman, thinking that it demonstrates a kind of dull mind. “Why does he like that bimbo?” she thinks.

Well, it’s not the bimbo part of her he finds alluring… It’s the relaxed, fun-loving part. It’s the care-free part.

Alan Watts, the great philosopher, said that there are two kinds of people: Prickly and Gooey.

Prickly people are logical and critical and skeptical…
Gooey people are emotional and soft and gullible…
We need a bit of both in us, but the fun side will come out with your Gooey side more than the Prickly.

Get Him To Notice You – Tip 2: Let Your Body Sing…

Men are very attracted to women who exude their personality through their body.

When you are relaxed and free in your body, you will come across with ...

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