How to never run out of things to say

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I understand that, sometimes, when you go out on a date with a beautiful man, you don't know what to say. You may feel a little anxious and scared.

As a guy going out to meet women, I learned one of the most powerful ways to never run out of things to say. It's something that most guys learn because it's a very powerful need.

I will tell you what guys know about how to have a conversation.

You have to understand why you're conversational skills suck. Whenever you see somebody, it's not that you don't know how to have a conversation, it's the fact that you feel like you don't know them.

You don't struggle how to have a conversation with your friends or your family members. Somehow, you struggle when it comes to a stranger. The only difference between a stranger and someone you know isn't the fact that you don't know about them.

The difference is in the emotion that you feel. You feel comfortable around the people that you know.

All you have to do then is to replicate the feeling that you know them. The way to do that is to look at them as a child. Look at them as somebody that you know for many years.

It's not about you knowing facts about them. It's about you feeling like you know them.

Your brain is going to open different channels in your mind that will enable you to have a great conversation.

Having a good conversation is not about whether or not you sound interesting. It's about whether or not you care about them and what they say.

If you have a feeling of familiarity with a person, you are going to want to not only talk but listen to them.

Another way to improve your conversational skills is to ask yourself: what can I say right now to have fun?

When you’re talking to someone, you're thinking ‘I have to say something interesting to impress them.’ The problem with that mentality is that you're thinking about it from a place of ‘I want to say something fun for them.’ That puts a lot of pressure on you.

Change it up and think, ‘How can I have fun?’ or ‘What can I say right now to have fun?’ You're going to naturally find something that's fun and interesting. You don't realize that when it's fun for you, you'll be feeling good emotions. One of the things that’s contagious in life is emotions.

When you feel like you know them, they will also feel like they know you. As a result, the conversation is going to be a lot better.

When you're also having fun, you will naturally say the right things.

Here's a link to the article version: mindfulattraction.org/blog/2019/7/18/how-to-nev…

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