How to Regain a Guy's Trust After F***ing Up

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Let's talk about how to regain trust after you fucked up like cheating on him or breaking up with him or just losing the person's trust.

Generally speaking, it's a lot easier to tear down a building than to build one up. It requires less thinking and less intuition but to build a building requires a lot of work, patience, and consistency.

It's the same when you lose someone's trust, it's extremely difficult to regain it at least at the level that it used to be. There will always be a slight edge of resentment, a little doubt per se and no matter how good of an individual someone is, that's still going to be in the back of their minds. It will require a lot of emotional maturities for someone to be able to let go of it.

The first thing to do to gain their trust again is to try not to find the quick route. The issue is it's very transparent. When you become predictable, it will show you have hidden intentions so the most important thing is coming unassuming and contrite in terms of apologizing and your mentality.

You got to stop trying to get them to trust you because it's going to be tainted with ulterior motives that people can feel and it puts their guard up.

Be undefensive because you don't want to be giving off the impression that you're trying to give off an impression. Look seamlessly and natural. Look within yourself and learn how to have compassion for yourself and forgive yourself. The lack of forgiveness you have for yourself will cause you to judge and antagonize yourself.

A lot of times, I don't try to change the behavior. I try to change the source of the behavior which always comes from the emotions.

give very thoughtful gifts BUT don't give it initially. Take your time and notice what the person wants and needs. The more creative it is and the less money you spend, the better. You don't want to point that you spent money, which is the easy route, to give them a gift. Make him notice that you put a lot of thought into it.

Also, don't force it. You have to forgive the person for the vulnerability they're going to show because they'll be very defensive around you. You have to be okay with it because you fucked up.

Know where you stand, know what you can offer and know what you have to lose. The less you tried to show what you changed and you change on your own through naturally focusing on it and not the incentive of getting the person back the better.

The fastest route to changing is through meditation. It promotes neuroplasticity which helps you be malleable and it helps you be less resistant to new ideas.

Visualize the kind of person you want to come across, visualize the kind of reputation you want to have amongst your peers and your partner and make these visualizations an obsession.

Make sure that the vision you see is a view of you showing that you're faithful but at the same time not trying. Be natural and make it specific. Envision yourself achieving something and being happy. The most important part is seeing the outcome of how you feel.

Here's a link to the article version: mindfulattraction.org/blog/2019/7/22/how-to-reg…

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