How to Stop Crying when You Are Very Upset

1Take deep breaths. Breathe in through your nose, out through your mouth, and extend your diaphragm as you do so. Although this may be painful if you've been crying for prolonged periods of time, the purpose is to relax. Continue even if your breathing is shaky.

2Once your breathing is fairly normal, try to find where the tension is in your body. Tense up the muscles in this area, hold for the count of five, and relax. Breathe and make a conscious effort to these and other tense areas, such as your shoulders and stomach.

3Lay down in a position that is comfortable to you in your bed. Turn off the big lights, and turn on the soft nightlights or other small lamps.

4Turn on some quiet music. Lose yourself in it. Turn this on quietly in the background. Talk to yourself in your head. Say stuff like (Everything is going to be ok) ,( It's over) or (she is going to be ok).

5Realize that life has its ups and downs. Crying isn't a bad thing and that crying isn't a bad thing to do, but that after a while, crying can actually hurt your body, so it's important to try to relax.

music:Sad, Slow instrumental music
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