How to subtly flirt with men and project confidence without putting effort | Video Breakdown

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I will show you guys a video breakdown of me applying what I teach you guys. What I’ve done in the video can be used on guys as well.

Everything I’m doing, I’m reading off of body language. At first, I kept my distance from her. You’ll notice her get close to me as I got close to her. If a person likes you, they will close off the distance between the two of you. They’re okay with you getting in their space.

Create the sexual tension, but don’t pop the bubble. Let that sexual tension simmer. To create sexual tension, slow down the way you talk by being present in the moment. Create a lot of pauses and eye contact.

I minimized my movements so that she can be comfortable with my physical presence.

I told her, ‘My eyes are here’ to fuck with her. It was a form of self-amusement and I wanted to see what she’s going to do.

I was bubbling with positive emotions.

I touched her by pushing her away to make her more comfortable with my presence. The key to the interaction is the subtleness. It all comes down to the emotion of self-amusement.

While the other person is talking, look at him while listening. In your mind, you’re thinking about how he looks so sexy.

When I lowered my voice, she also lowered her voice. She mimics me.

I did a cold-read on her. Rather than asking questions, assume things about the person. That makes the person elaborate more and you get to know them at a deeper level. He doesn’t feel like he’s in an interview if you keep asking questions.

Her touching her hair was a sign of attraction.

When I asked her if she likes to read, or do yoga, she only said yoga. I could have rolled my eyes to communicate in a subtle and playful way that she didn’t meet up to my standards. It could make her qualify herself to me so she could get my approval.

I talked with low energy which enables me to have a playful vibe without compromising masculinity.

If you have a playful and girly vibe to you, you want to mix that with a very grounded and relaxed energy. He’ll be able to feel the contrast and feel you at a deeper level.

When someone calls you out on your bullshit, have some self-deprecating humor. If you’re not playful, you’re gonna get defensive.

Instead of wanting to make her like me, I keep thinking about how I can have fun at that moment. As a result, she’s able to experience me through the positivity that I’m experiencing.

She doesn’t experience me intellectually. She experiences me emotionally.

I said something that wasn’t funny, but she laughed. When girls like you, they’ll think everything you say is funny.

Provide value with positive emotions. If you’re needy, you won’t be able to provide that.

You must overflow with positive emotions and try to feel it. It will be projected in your actions naturally.

Don’t answer all questions clearly. Give enough space for him to ask more so you can be playful with your answers.

Learn to say no so you can create barriers and be in a position of power.

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