How to Show Your Ex You've Changed

How to Show Your Ex You've Changed

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Hey YouTube, Angela here, and today I want to talk about a problem that often comes up when trying to win your ex back, and that’s showing him or her that you’ve changed.

Often times when couples break up it’s for a reason. Maybe one of you was too clingy or jealous, or perhaps one of you had an overbearing negative streak, or just didn’t put in enough effort to make it work between the two of you. Sometimes couples don’t even the issues that causes them to part until after the fact.

So, if you’re looking to win your ex back then you’re going to have to change the way your ex thinks about you by showing him or her that you yourself have changed. But, how do you do it?

Here are some helpful tips to keep in mind. Now I have to give credit where credit is due here because not all of these ideas are my own, but rather ones I learned from fantastic ex-back articles and programs, most notably Brad Browning’s The Ex Factor Guide.

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Now, let’s get to it!

The first way to show your ex that you’ve changed is by using social media to your advantage.

Instead of telling your ex that things are different now, or how …… show them! Since actions speak louder than words, posting photos of yourself doing new fun things with others is going to show your ex that you’ve been keeping busy.

Since your ex expects you to sit around and sulk about the breakup, showing them otherwise is going to prove that you’re focused on keeping busy and making changes.

If you can get your friends to tag you in their posts instead of you doing so yourself then this will work even better. After all, you don’t want your ex to think that you’re being braggy or trying to get their attention. When you do have to post for yourself, make sure it seems natural.

The second way you can show your ex that you’ve changed is by dropping casual hints to your mutual friends.

If you and your ex share a friend group then this can be an excellent resource for showing your ex that you’ve changed. That said, it’s important to keep in mind that your ex is also friends with these people, so you don’t want to say anything that is going to make you seem like you’re trying to relay a message to your ex.

Again, the trick is to be subtle. For example, you can mention some of the changes you’ve made since the breakup, be it new friends, a date you went on, a bucket list goal you’ve accomplished or a club you signed up for. By casually talking about how things have changed since the breakup, your ex will find out that you have in fact changed. Just be sure that everything you do share is positive and believable.

When you can shift your ex’s feelings about you to make them think, “Wow, they’re really moving on and living a fun life since the breakup,” it will make you ex question if they made a mistake walking away from the relationship.

The third way to show your ex that you’ve changed is by subtly telling them so.

Let’s say that you run into your ex at a party and they ask how you’ve been. Instead of simply responding with “good,” tell him or her what you’ve been up to. For instance, you could say something like, “things have been really good. I finally signed up for that art class and I’ve met a bunch of new people who I’ve been spending time with.”

Saying something along these lines shows your ex that you’re working on improving your life for the better and happily moving on. Since at least a part of them expects you to be at home, upset about the breakup, or begging them to take you back, showing them that you’re doing great on your own will not only surprise them, but it will take you far when it comes to winning them back.

Keep in mind that it’s important to give it time. If you and your ex split up last week then there is no way they are going to believe that you changed in seven days. In fact, if you try to prove that you have in such as short period of time then they will most definitely doubt your claims.

My fourth and final tip for showing your ex that you’ve changed is by being your best self.

If you kick off a conversation with your ex by listing all the changes you’ve made since the breakup then your ex may be suspicious that you’re just saying whatever it takes to win him or her back. So, instead of even telling them about the changes, simply show them your best self.