How To Deal With Being Alone With No Friends

HOW TO DEAL WITH BEING ALONE WITH NO FRIENDS\\ In this video I'm going to give you advice for how to deal with being alone with no friends.

How To Focus On Yourself Video: youtube.com/watch?v=bs8GQPIreyU

I understand that if you're lonely and if you feel like nobody cares about you that it can be hard to get through your days. Trust me I've been there. I was actually reading through one of my old diaries from a few years ago. Holy sh*t. So I want to leave you with an exercise that can help can lift your spirits and change your perception about your situation.

So the first thing that I want you to really absorb is that you are not alone. There are people who do love you, who do care about you, and that you can never be alone because the one person that will always be there for you, is you. You are always your own best friend. You will never be able to fully control the way that other people behave, but you can control your own mind, your own thoughts and behaviour.

You have to learn to be your own best friend and love your own company if you want others to do the same. If you don't like yourself or you don't think that you deserve love that is the kind of energy that you are going to be sending out into the world and people are actually going to subconsciously sense that about you, and that make that belief that you hold about yourself come true. They won't respect you either, they won't think that you are worth of love either.

The best way to learn how to love yourself is to embrace solitude, seek solitude, and silence. Turn off your wifi, your phone, you television. And just simply sit down and think. Get out a pen and paper. Let your thoughts flow. If they're bad, let them out. Confront them. Question them. Remember, you are not the same thing as your thoughts. Just because you are thinking something doesn't make it true. Learning the separate your thoughts from yourself is the first step to becoming the master of your mind. Write down a list of all of the things that you really like about yourself. Your strengths, talents, and the things that people have complimented you on. Write down a list of all the things that you want to experience in your life, no matter how ridiculous they seem. All of your dreams. Then I want you to look at all of the wonderful things that you've written down about yourself and your dreams and I want you to realize that that is the real you. That's who you really are. That's your higher self, and it's there. That's the part of you that's going to be confident, successful, have a lot of friends, and create a lot of love in your life.

I want you to start feeding that part of yourself. Nurturing it, giving it all the attention and time that it needs. Through self-care, through working on yourself and starting within rather than looking outside of yourself, THAT is how you will find the man or woman of your dreams, that is how you will have fulfilling life long friendships that is the path through which you will create high quality relationships in your life. If you want a high quality relationship you have to turn yourself into a high quality person first, in order to be able to attract a high quality person, and then two high quality people equal a high quality relationship right? If you want more ways for how to feed this part of yourself, please watch my video called how to focus on yourself that I'm going to link at the end of this video. In this video I share with you the top 5 most actionable, practical steps that you can start practicing in your life TODAY in order to start nourishing that higher part of yourself.


-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
-------------------------------------------
E-BOOKS I'VE WRITTEN:

My life in a book (Confessions of a Serial Slut: A Memoir) :

bit.ly/1VizEaJ (18+)

The Ultimate Guide To Being Single: bit.ly/1VizOyV
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Social Media links:

GOOGLE PLUS: plus.google.com/u/1/+LyraScotch/posts
SNAPCHAT: lyrascotchz

I also have a health channel: bit.ly/1IzyZpN

Business inquiries: [email protected]
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
SUPPORT FOR MY CHANNEL:

donation page: paypal.me/LyraDano

t-shirts I designed: amzn.to/2GhzjRS