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How to Flirt Without Being Creepy
ChannelCharisma on CommandIn brief
This video breaks down how to flirt confidently while avoiding behaviors that might come across as creepy, based on recent research and practical tips. You’ll learn subtle ways to engage—from eye contact and body language to playful conversation starters—and adjust your approach based on her reactions. It’s aimed at anyone who wants to connect more naturally without overstepping.
Key steps
- Hold eye contact for 1–3 seconds when approaching to feel natural, not intense
- Start with brief, friendly interactions (smiles, waves, high-fives) with those who respond positively
- Combine light compliments with humor to ease tension during conversation
- Use 1–3 second touches on the arm to show interest without crossing boundaries
- Position yourself so your back isn’t against a wall to avoid making her feel trapped
Description from the creator
How to approach and flirt with women that you like without being creepy.
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The first ever study of creepiness was done just a few weeks ago, and it had a really interesting result that men and women think of creepiness differently. Men think of creepiness as taxidermy, scary movies and clowns. Women have those same associations plus one more... Women also associate creepiness with men.
Somewhere in the course of every mans life while he was flirting he has done something creepy. The reason is that men don't have the same understanding of creepy that women do when flirting.
How to Flirt Time-Stamp Guide:
0:47 The Goldilocks rule of eye contact when flirting and approaching
2:04 Warm Up to social interaction (start making brief eye contact with everyone)
2:44 Add a smile, wave or high five and speak to the women who smile back
3:50 When flirting combine your compliments with jokes to release tension
5:05 1-3 Second touches on the arm are enough to indicate interest without being creepy
6:25 Pay attention to how receptive she is to physical contact and respond accordingly
8:05 Critical Flirting tip avoid making her feel trapped by positioning your own back to the wall
Link to Russell Brand Flirting Breakdown:
youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k
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Get The 3 Ways To Start A Conversation: goo.gl/YcTueW
The first ever study of creepiness was done just a few weeks ago, and it had a really interesting result that men and women think of creepiness differently. Men think of creepiness as taxidermy, scary movies and clowns. Women have those same associations plus one more... Women also associate creepiness with men.
Somewhere in the course of every mans life while he was flirting he has done something creepy. The reason is that men don't have the same understanding of creepy that women do when flirting.
How to Flirt Time-Stamp Guide:
0:47 The Goldilocks rule of eye contact when flirting and approaching
2:04 Warm Up to social interaction (start making brief eye contact with everyone)
2:44 Add a smile, wave or high five and speak to the women who smile back
3:50 When flirting combine your compliments with jokes to release tension
5:05 1-3 Second touches on the arm are enough to indicate interest without being creepy
6:25 Pay attention to how receptive she is to physical contact and respond accordingly
8:05 Critical Flirting tip avoid making her feel trapped by positioning your own back to the wall
Link to Russell Brand Flirting Breakdown:
youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k
Subscribe to Charisma On Command: bit.ly/subscribeCOC
Connect With Us:
Website: charismaoncommand.com
Facebook: facebook.com/charismaoncommand
Periscope: periscope.tv/Charismaon
Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):
Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
About this tutorial
Charisma on Command published this 11:01 video tutorial on November 3, 2016. It has been watched 4,324,702 times on YouTube.
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- Charisma on Command
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- 11:01
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- November 3, 2016
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