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How To Never Be Boring In Conversation

4,048,782 views October 25, 2019 8:51

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In brief

You’ll pick up four simple but powerful habits from Tom Hanks’ conversational style to keep any chat engaging—even when the topic isn’t naturally exciting. The focus is on delivery, not content, and these techniques work for everyday chats with friends or colleagues.

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Tom Hanks has one of the most captivating personalities in Hollywood. What’s interesting is that his charm has much less to do with what he is saying compared to how he says it.

So in this video, we’re going to break down 4 habits that make everything Tom says more interesting, and how you can use these to ensure that you are never boring in conversation, even if you don’t have super interesting topics to talk about.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:18 - Habit #1: He uses a story gap.
1:45 - Habit #2: He inhabits the character/action that he is talking about.
4:02 - Habit #3: Tom uses dynamics.
6:02 - Habit #4: Tom includes everyone in the group.

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Charisma on Command published this 8:51 video tutorial on October 25, 2019. It has been watched 4,048,782 times on YouTube.

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