How To Stop Your Divorce From Happening - Divorce Prevention Guide

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Hello again, YouTube! My name is Lisa Force and I’m a relationship coach and dating expert. And this video is going to be for the married couples out there. In this video, I’m going to give you some tips on how you can fix your marriage and hopefully stop a potential divorce from happening. But like with any any topic this immense, there’s no way I can cover everything there is to know about fixing your marriage. If you do want to watch a more in-depth video, then I highly suggest you go to LisaForce.com/Divorce to watch a longer video on this exact topic. So without wasting too much more time here, let’s jump right into this. So once upon a time, you and your spouse were deeply in love and everything was wonderful. But over time, whether it be weeks, months or years, the bickering and arguing became more frequent. You spent more time apart. The passion and romance waned. And when one partner got fed up up and announced his or her intention to leave, the earth began to shake… and then you began to wonder, is there any way to stop this from happening? The answer to this very complex question can never be a definitive “yes” or “no”. However, there are things that you can do right now to make sure that you optimize your chance of re-sparking that love and chemistry you two once had. And like with all my videos, if you do have any questions, feel free to comment below and ask me. I do my best to get back to everyone! So step number one – fixing your marriage is going to have to start with working on yourself. Regardless of what your partner wants, getting back to the point of happiness is going to have to start with YOU. At this point in time, it’s one of the only things that you can totally control. So if you want to start taking your marriage down the right path, you’re going to have to make a genuine effort to force yourself to remain positive. Don’t beg or plead with your spouse, don’t lash out and get angry, and don’t blame him or her. Doing these things will only further set you back. So instead of harnessing all that negative energy, do your best to remain cheerful and positive. Be a pleasant person to be around and your spouse will appreciate this. Don’t be afraid display random gestures of kindness around your spouse too – make him or her dinner, buy a small gift, or simply give your partner a massage. Small gestures can go a long way. Step number two – don’t play the victim. During conflict, it’s natural to try and make your spouse feel guilty, but it’s been proven that that this will just make your spouse depressed. Instead, of feeling sorry for yourself, try and feel proud. Tell yourself about all the positive qualities that your partner brings to the marriage and appreciate it. Don’t say you appreciate these qualities, but show your appreciation. For example, if your spouse helped you fix your laptop computer, you could show appreciation by making him or her their favourite meal. Let your actions speak louder than words.

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