How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend (Complete Guide To Reversing Your Breakup)

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Hello, YouTubers! My name is Lisa Force and I’m a relationship coach and dating expert. Today I’m going to be talking about something that us girls all hate: BREAKUPS! Yes, breakups are the worst, especially if you weren’t the one who initiated the breakup. But if you aren’t ready to give up on this guy yet, then there are definitely things that you can do and say to make your ex boyfriend fall for you again. And these little known tips and tricks will be revealed to you in this video! But you have to be quick, because the longer you wait around, the greater the chance that your ex boyfriend might get away from you forever, so make sure you watch this whole video all the way through. So let’s jump right into it, ladies! Step Number One – Get Over Him! Yes, I know the whole point of this video is to try and get your ex boyfriend back, but believe it or not, one of the first things you need to do in order to get him back is get over him. This may seem a little weird and counter-intuitive, but hear me out for a second. Begging, pleading, and arguing with him won’t convince your ex boyfriend to come back to you – if anything, doing these things will only push him further and further away. So by getting over him, you avoid the natural urges to just pick up your phone and text him like crazy. “WHY WON’T HE TEXT ME BACK So how do you get over him? Good question! There are several things you can do to take your mind off of him. Working out is one things you can do -- exercise and physical activity increases the amount of “feel good” hormones in your body, so if you’re in need of a lift in mood to take your mind off this guy, then definitely go to the gym or go for a quick jog. The second thing you can do to take your mind off your ex is to just have a good old GIRL’S NIGHT. (Paaaaaarty tiiiiime) Yes, spending time with some good friends will help you have fun AND take your mind off the breakup. The third thing you can do to take your mind off your ex boyfriend is to date other guys. I know, I know, that’s probably the last thing you want to do right now, but dating other guys can be fun and there’s no quicker way to forget about an ex. Not to mention that it might make your ex boyfriend a little jealous, and this could work to your advantage, but more on that later. Step Number Two – DON’T TALK TO YOUR EX. Now, I’m not the only relationship expert on YouTube, but you can bet your bottom dollar that they all advocate this step. YouTube relationship expert Brad Browning calls this the “No Contact Rule”. What it entails is exactly that – not contacting your ex boyfriend for a period of about 30 days. So no calling, no texting, and no Snapchatting. Why? Well, in order to make your ex miss you and want to be with you again, he needs to know that he could LOSE you. Men are a lot more emotional than you think, and if you use this tactic well, then you’ll be able to turn the tables entirely. For more information on this, check out Brad Browning’s video on exactly why this “No Contact” rule works… just go to LisaForce.com/GetHimBack to check out Brad’s amazing new video. Now, during this “No Contact” period, it’s quite possible that your ex boyfriend will contact you. What should you do? Well, in my opinion, you want to continue IGNORING him for now. If he continues to press you or if he actually has something important to ask, just send him something quick and easy. Right now, you want to give him the impression that you’ve moved on, so getting into a long conversation with him isn’t going to help at this point. Step Number Three – Contact Him! Okay, so that long 30 day period of “No Contact” has passed and you’re ready to reach out to him again. But what do you say and how do you say it? Well, first of all, I recommend reaching out to him by text message. Why texting? Well, texting is “non-threatening” – it’s the most non-invasive method of communicating. Second, you don’t want to just say something boring like “hey” or “what’s up?” Saying these things will give off the impression that you miss him and that you just want to talk to him. Again, for now, you don’t want to give off that impression. You’ll want to text him for a good reason. So asking him an important question or sending him a funny YouTube video is a great way to break the ice and re-establish positive communication with your ex. So send him something super funny and say, “Hey, here’s a really cool video!