How To Make Him Text You First (Game Changer!)

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Hi, I’m Lucy Goldman for LoveLearnings TV. When I tell people I’m a texting expert, a lot of them roll their eyes. But I’ve spent years teaching women all over the world how to use texting to get the love life they want. Texting is just another form of communication and if you can master it, you can do anything.

So let’s get into it. Here’s your situation: you have a crush on a guy but you two aren’t in regular contact. You want to move from lingering glances to the “talking phase” and do that, you need him to text you.

I think this is a great idea. So much about a relationship is determined by these early moments of connection. Now I’m going to say something controversial here. Some of you may consider this old-fashioned but the truth is it has been a factor in love and relationships between men and women since the beginning of time…. Women attract and men pursue. Whether this is biology or society, doesn’t really matter. What’s important is that you’re trying to attract a man and create love so understanding this dynamic is vital.

That’s why it really does make sense to wait for him to text you first. But what happens when men won’t make the first move? When you’re dealing with shy or oblivious men, it can be very frustrating. Don’t worry, I’ve come up with a solution.

I’ll take you through 3 steps that will make him notice you and reach out to make a connection. If you can do this right, it won’t be a matter of “if” but “when” he’ll fall head over heels for you. I call it the ABC’s of Attraction. Just remember, LoveLearnings TV is in no way associated with Sesame Street. Let’s get into it.

A is for Activate his attention.

This is key to any romantic interaction, no matter who you are. There’s no reason to expect him to text you first if he doesn’t know you exist. Or what if he has your number but you two haven’t talked in months? Whatever the situation, you need to Activate your man if you want to get anywhere. But how can you do this without texting him first? Subtlety is key here. The whole point is to make HIM text YOU first, not the other way around. That said, some sort of interaction is required. What kind of interaction will all depend on how you know him.

I often advise women to give the man they like their number. Make up some excuse as to why he needs it. Maybe you want him to send you the name of a band he mentioned or a cool restaurant. The lamer your reason, the more likely he is to get the message that you’re interested.

Can you send messages that he can’t ignore? I’ve found a series of words and phrases that tap into a man’s most primal urges and make him yearn for you. Go to AttractionTexts.com right now to learn exactly how this works.

B is for Be available

When I tell women to “be available” it doesn’t mean overly flirty or desperate. It’s simply about being open and receptive. This availability isn’t even targeted at the guy in particular. If you give off the sense that you’re open to whatever might come along this will make you desirable and ot can even ignite a man’s hunter instinct. He’ll be worried that a woman who is so in love with life won’t remain on the market for long. Subconsciously this will push him towards you and encourage him to make his move “before it’s too late”.

How do you show him you’re available? Again, this will depend on how you know him and how you get to see him. If he’s following you on social media it can be as simple as making a couple posts to show that you like to have fun and try new things.

C is for Create anticipation

Building anticipation is a surefire way to make men interested in you and drive them wild. Anticipation is what drives men to pursue women and you can create it in your man without him ever knowing. Create anticipation through subtle flirting. A lingering glance can do wonders here.

Another way to create anticipation is by limiting your time together. This seems counterintuitive but it really does work. You want to always be the one to end an interaction, no matter what. If you always seem to be heading out the door, he’ll wonder why he can’t get enough of you. Plus, he’ll want to know what you’re up to that’s so exciting. Whether or not he knows why, he’ll be subconsciously drawn to you to try to keep you around. And if you can get him to feel that, it’s only a matter of time before he’s yours.

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