How To Flirt With Men And Build Attraction

How To Flirt With Men And Build Attraction
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Flirting is simple. All it takes is remembering a few simple do’s and don’ts and putting them into practice in the real world.

Hi, I’m Amy North. As a relationship and dating expert I know how critical flirting is to attracting the notice of quality men. So you’d better believe that I’m not flirting when I say you’re going to be irresistible. I really mean it!

Today I’m going to go over two scenarios that will illustrate how to act if you want to pique his interest, and how to act if you want to stay single for the rest of your life.

Meet Lisa and Darren. They’ve met a few times through mutual friends. They know one another’s names but that’s about it. And oh yeah. Lisa is crushing on Darren, hard.

Darren approaches Lisa to say hello.

He says, “Hi Lisa.”
Lisa says “I didn’t expect to see you again. It’s been awhile. Where have you been?”
Darren says, “Yeah, it’s great to see you. I’ve actually been in Seattle visiting my cousin.”
Lisa says, “I just went to Chicago to see my brother and his wife. They finally had a baby.”
“Wow, congratulations on becoming an aunt. What’s his name?”
“No, it’s a girl and her name is Jesse.”
“Beautiful name…”
DARREN: “Well, I’ll see you later.”
LISA: “Bye"

A pretty basic conversation. After this Lisa and Darren continued to be friendly but Darren never asked her out and they never got together.


Do you know what Lisa did wrong that turned Darren off and ruined her chance to be with him?

She actually made over a dozen mistakes that hurt her chances with Darren. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

What else is wrong with this picture? Give up? Look at Lisa’s shoes.

She’s wearing big tall boots that make her taller than Darren. This is something to avoid if your crush is anywhere near your height. You should try your best to appear shorter than him. Studies show that men prefer shorter women so you should avoid exaggerating your height over his. You want him to notice you for the right reasons.

But what about their conversation?

First, Lisa doesn’t say his name or even greet Darren.

Instead she launches right into a question. Questions are great but the phrasing here is not working. She says “I didn’t expect to see you again. Where have you been?”

This comes across as more of an interrogation than a conversation. It’s starting things off on a negative rather than a positive.

When Darren says “I’ve been out of town visiting my cousin.” Lisa blows past this to tell her own story instead of asking him about his trip.

Flirting is about staying positive. Lisa is being pretty negative here

She says…. “They FINALLY had a baby”

She doesn’t say thank you when Darren congratulates her.

She corrects Darren harshly when he misgenders the baby.

So it’s no wonder that the conversation falls flat.

And while Darren says “I’ll see you later,” Lisa just says “bye.”


Now let’s imagine a different scenario

The next day, Lisa and Darren see each other on the same street again. Lisa smiles, waves and approaches Darren.


“Hi Darren, come here often?”

Darren laughs, “I could ask you the same question.”

Here’s where Lisa makes a decisive move, she shares her umbrella.


Notice how she didn’t doubt herself or ask him if it was okay. She simply acted.

“Usually I never share my umbrella, but I’ll make an exception for you just this once.”

“Thanks, I owe you one.”

“So you were saying the other day that you just got back from Seattle. I’ve always wanted to go. How was your trip?”


Lisa and Darren kept talking and the rest, as they say, is history.


So what exactly did Lisa do differently? Well for starters, she greeted Darren with enthusiasm.

Next, she made a joke and then got close to him by sharing the umbrella. Then she made him feel special.

After that she asked him a question about something they’d previously talked about, showing interest in his life in a natural way.

As you can see, it doesn’t take a lot of work or a cheesy pick up line to go from floundering to flirting.

So how did Lisa turn from a cold fish into a straight up fox? She went to CoachNorth.com.

There she discovered my free video presentation and learned the secret that made Darren want to devote himself to her. When she used this technique it unlocked Darren’s strongest desires and bonded him to her for good.

Check it out for yourself now at CoachNorth.com